So although my college class assignment has ended and there really is no reason for me to continue posting on this blog I have decided, why let a blog go to waste? I have decided that I am going to continue blogging about my struggles as a vegetarian and life choices that I am making as I continue to attempt to "live deliberately".
The Health and & Happiness aspect of this experiment really opened my eyes to the lack of happiness that we really have in our lives. As a society we seem to have defined happiness as having material products and having a lot of friends on Facebook. But what I really want to know is, are we really happy? If you can truly answer yes to that question, then congrats. But this blog will be about me really thinking about my own personal answer to that question. So stay tuned for this summer as I try to define my own happiness!
Monday, April 16, 2012
Monday, April 9, 2012
Conclusion: Success!
I consider my experiment to be a success even though I
struggled with several aspects and I definitely failed at doing everything that
I had wanted to do. However, the point of the experiment was to think about our
values and about how we can take action to “live deliberately”. I have
definitely discovered what I am passionate about when it comes to living
deliberately. I have decided to continue my vegetarian diet beyond this experiment,
go on Facebook less, and spend more quality time with friends. I will continue
to ride the shuttle bus and I will eventually have to purchase products other
than food, but I can definitely say that I have learned a lot from this
experiment.
“By changing nothing,
nothing changes.” –Tony Robbins
This is the quote that I really modeled my experiment after.
The quote may appear to be only a simple and obvious statement, but it carries
a true and powerful message. It is the message that change only occurs when
people work towards that change. As stated earlier, it is so easy to feel
defeated by all the problems of the world and to feel a sense of hopelessness.
By doing this experiment I learned that we are not as hopeless as we sometimes
feel. We have the power to change our own lives by changing different aspects
of our lifestyle. Little changes lead to big changes. Even though this
experiment was just one class of 19 students trying to make little changes, we
have spread the message about change through our blogs. This message could have
influenced a reader to do the same. Individual change does not just affect the
individual. For example, my decision to become a vegetarian has influenced my
family to eat less meat during the week and has even influenced my friends;
some of which go vegetarian for some meals when they eat with me. If everyone
created some kind of small change in his or her life for a greener lifestyle I
have no doubt that collectively we would make a big difference on the
environment. But if we all just sit around and do nothing, then nothing will
change and the world will continue on its downward spiral. Does that sound like
fun?
My belief is that we are scared of change. We are scared
because we believe that change needs to be drastic and monumental. But does
doing something great and positive for the world have to be something big? I don’t
think it does. Sure, big change is awesome, but we are not all capable of
bringing about big change. Therefore, I
believe that small change is better than no change at all.
So my message for anyone who is reading this blog is to go
out there and try your own experiment. What are you capable of changing in your
life that can help the environment? It can be as simple as recycling or as
intense as going vegan. But what is important is that you DO SOMETHING. Don’t
just sit there. Unless you have a house on Mars, this is your planet and we are
all equally responsible for taking care of it. In the words of Gandhi, “Be the change
you wish to see in the world.” Be the change you wish to see because it is up
to individuals to incite the change for a greener, more sustainable world.
Thursday, April 5, 2012
Day 3: More successes and failures
Transportation:
I really am failing at this aspect of the experiment. We
were on a bit of a time crunch to get supplies for an art project and I didn’t
even realize until I was sitting on the bus that the experiment required me NOT
to take the bus. At this point I am wondering how other people are reminding
themselves about transportation because I am really struggling with this one. I
think the shuttle bus has become such a regular part of my life that it is easy
to forget that I should be walking instead of riding. I have now posted a
sticky note on my mirror that says (in all caps letters) “DO NOT TAKE THE
SHUTTLE BUS!” so hopefully this will be good reminder.
Food:
Today I grabbed food from the vegan section! I had pesto
pasta with bread and some peppers that I dipped in Caesar dressing. It was not only a completely vegetarian plate,
but it was also very healthy!
Ever since becoming a vegetarian, I have found that my diet has improved and I have become more conscious of the food that I am putting on my plate. I have been eating more vegetables (and not just salad) and more fruit. The best part is, I actually enjoy eating these meals more than I ever enjoyed eating fried chicken or any other meat concoction that the dining services has prepared. I never would have guessed that eating healthy could actually be so delicious! I have even been doing some brainstorming for future recipes that I want to cook that are strictly vegetarian (I am planning on doing a lot of cooking over the summer!).
Ever since becoming a vegetarian, I have found that my diet has improved and I have become more conscious of the food that I am putting on my plate. I have been eating more vegetables (and not just salad) and more fruit. The best part is, I actually enjoy eating these meals more than I ever enjoyed eating fried chicken or any other meat concoction that the dining services has prepared. I never would have guessed that eating healthy could actually be so delicious! I have even been doing some brainstorming for future recipes that I want to cook that are strictly vegetarian (I am planning on doing a lot of cooking over the summer!).
One site that I found lists the recipes by meal type,
cuisine type, and food type so you can really find the meal that you want.
I have also become addicted to Pinterest and I plan on trying
to recreate some of the recipes that I have found on that website!
Spinach, Strawberry & Goat Cheese Salad with Pomegranate
Vinaigrette
Avocado with Bell Pepper and Tomatoes
Peanut Butter Banana French Toast
Consumerism:
No more news to report here other than I have not spent a
dime on anything other than food! I haven’t even spent money on food recently
because I use most of my meal swipes or Eaglebucks to purchase food. The
result? My wallet is feeling very happy.
Technology:
Success! I only went on Facebook once today! Okay, so it
might have been for a very long time that I was online, but I still consider
this to be an accomplishment! Wednesday was another story… I believe I went on
Facebook around 3 or 4 times. However, I have really made use of my sticky
notes and have left a note on my laptop reminding me to not sign onto Facebook.
I have also signed myself off Facebook so that when I click the link for
Facebook I actually have to enter in my username and password. It used to be
that when I click on the link for Facebook that it automatically signs me in. This
extra work actually helps me remember and reevaluate my choice to go on
Facebook.
Positive Impact/Political Action:
Today I talked with my site manager of Jumpstart about
moving forward with community service after my term with Jumpstart is over. She
offered fellow Jumpstart members and myself some advice on the future in terms
of volunteering. Although I haven’t been able to dedicate much more time
yesterday and today than I already do to Jumpstart, I still have been thinking
about the impact that I make when volunteering and am keeping that open as a possibility
for the future.
Health & Happiness:
Yesterday I went for two walks with two separate friends.
This whole walking for a half an hour thing has really been beneficial to
having real conversations with people that I really enjoy spending time with. I
think I am going to try and incorporate more walks into my daily schedule even
after this experiment is over. Also, today I painted my nails and watched a TV
show. It was nice to have some “me” time to help de-stress and take a break
from my work. To be honest, this has to be my favorite part of this whole
experiment.
This experiment is going great so far! I have become so
passionate about vegetarianism and late-night walks!
Tuesday, April 3, 2012
Day 1: Let the Living Deliberately Begin!
My sustainable living experiment begins! Although it is just day 1, I can tell that following through with all the different aspects of the
experiment will be difficult. I will not lie and say I did everything I was
supposed to do today, because that is not the point of an experiment. The point
is to see what works, what doesn’t work, and what needs improvement. So let me
break down my Tuesday for you:
Transportation:
I am disappointed to say that I did not walk to the metro as
I had decided that I would do. I was running late today and didn’t have time to
walk instead of taking the shuttle bus. Excuses, excuses, I know. I am
definitely not proud of being unable to follow through with the transportation
aspect of the experiment. I knew right from the start of this experiment that this
would be one of the most difficult parts and I was right. I am really going to
have to work towards not using the shuttle bus.
Food:
The continuation of my vegetarianism has been going great.
No bumps in the road so far. Just this weekend I even bought some more
breakfast options, such as oatmeal and healthy cereal, to start eating a
healthier (and vegetarian!) diet. Also, for lunch today I actually participated
in Taco Tuesday. I have been avoiding Taco Tuesday since I started being
vegetarian because I just couldn’t see myself eating a taco without meat.
However, today I filled my taco with beans instead of meat and surprisingly
enough, my taco still tasted just as delicious as I remember it tasting when it
had meat in it! Participating in Taco Tuesday without using meat really made me
think about the value we put on meat to “complete” our meals. Is it really
necessary to have meat on our plate in order to have a satisfying lunch or
dinner? I’m beginning to realize that meat is not always necessary for a meal
to be delicious.
Consumerism:
Aside from buying the oatmeal and cereal for my breakfast I
have not purchased anything at all this week! I am planning on avoiding CVS (my
weak point for spending money) for this entire experiment. This way I cannot be
tempted to buy anything that I do not need. Also, today I didn’t even spend
money on food for dinner. I went to a free dinner event for Professional
Women’s Association. Hooray for free food and lack of consumerism! Although I
realize the importance of consumerism for powering an economy, for the purposes
of my experimentation, I am happy with my choice to not spend any money. My
bank account will surely thank me.
Technology:
Sadly, I must report that I went on Facebook three times
today and I cannot even count how many times I went on Twitter. Although this
isn’t what I wanted to accomplish for this experiment, three times is better
than going on every time I turn on my computer. I take this as an improvement
and a step forward but there is definitely room for improvement! Why do
Facebook and Twitter have to be so addicting? It is almost as if Facebook has
become essential to my life. I seemingly cannot go one day without it.
Positive Impact/Political Action:
Instead of staying for the usual two hours of volunteering
at Martha’s Table, a low-income DC school that Jumpstart works with, I stayed
for an extra half hour. In this half
hour I was able to read about three or four books to some of the children. If I
was not there, they certainly would not have been read to that day. I feel like
staying longer really let me get more involved with the children as opposed to
just leaving at my regular time.
Health & Happiness:
Today, my friend and I went for a walk for about 45 minutes.
We explored some of the nicer neighborhoods near campus and allowed ourselves
to get a bit lost amongst the mansion-style houses. We were able to really talk
to one another about anything and everything without the distractions of
Facebook, YouTube, or even cell phones. This kind of relaxed conversation mixed
with a long walk is what I feel like I need more of in my life. My friend and I
had very intellectual conversations about our futures after college, our families,
Easter, and even the difficult subject of money and happiness. We talked about
what is going on in our lives that we find stressful and what we could do to
help us de-stress. Truth is, that walk was the perfect de-stressor for me.
Mission accomplished for the health and happiness aspect of this experiment!
I'd say, overall, a great start to my week of experimentation! Stay tuned to hear more about it later!
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